Hello…

Just a single girl… or I guess woman… Since I’m in my late 30’s…

I’m a woman… Just trying to navigate this crazy thing called life.

A few years ago if you would have asked me where I saw myself in 2026 I would have told you married to the love of my life and living a life that I loved…

But now I’m no longer married and if I’m completely honest I would say that he wasn’t the love of my life…

I’m sure this blog will tell stories of him and I. The good that bad and the healing that I’m still trying to do from it.

It will have stories of a few of the people that I talked to after him…

And stories of the one that I fell in love with…

To only realize that I’m not even sure if love is real anymore… and that I don’t even really know what I am doing anymore…

I will tell about my new found love of books… and give some recommendations…

I’ll tell about travel… (Or maybe the hopes of travel.)

I’ll tell about just my life in generally… That really is sometimes a shit show but it’s my life…

The good… The bad… The heartbreaks… The health journey… and the fails…

Mostly I will just show you me and hope that someone else stumbles across this an realizes that they aren’t the only one trying there extra hardest to make this crazy life a life. Even if they are just getting through…

So it’s me…

I’m Hay… Welcome to my Handspun Life.